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Seek help:

It is important to seek help, but don’t confront your abuser on your own. Instead speak to a trusted adult (family member, teacher, youth worker or the police) about what’s happening to you. They will be able to help. You can also talk to Safer; we can help you understand what is happening and make a safety plan and think about next steps.

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It is important to have a safety plan. This can include:

  • Tell people who you trust about what has been happening
  • Thinking of safe places to go
  • Always have your phone charged
  • Make up a code word you can use with people if you need to ask for help in front of your abuser
  • Make sure someone always knows where you are
  • Think about when things are likely to be most scary, and plan when and how to leave safely
  • Call 999 in an emergency

 If you want to end your relationship, try to do it with other people around and keep important items in a bag that is kept safe somewhere (it should include keys, money, passport, id, medication etc.,).

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Call us anytime 01481 721999 (24/7)

IN AN EMERGENCY CALL 999

BeSafer is part of the charity Safer, which specialises in supporting and empowering victims of domestic abuse. The service is run by our dedicated team, including our Child and Young Person Violence Advisors (CYPVAs), who work directly with children and young people affected by domestic abuse, whether in their own homes or in their intimate relationships.

Alongside them, our Domestic and Sexual Abuse Education Workers deliver age-appropriate sessions in schools from Year 6 to Year 13, helping young people understand the difference between healthy and unhealthy relationships. Together, they provide a caring, all-round approach to supporting and educating young people.

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