Banter vs. bullying

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Banter vs. bullying

Banter

Banter can be described as playful teasing between friends or colleagues, usually an equal and generally funny exchange. Whether it is at school, work or at home between siblings, there will always be comments thrown around in jest. Banter involves people with equal power, where there is no hurt involved and no intent to cause harm

 

Remember if you would not find it funny if it was said to you DON’T SAY IT

Bullying

Bullying is a behaviour that hurts someone else. It includes name calling, pushing, spreading rumours, threatening or undermining someone. It can happen anywhere – at school, at home or online. It is usually repeated over a long period of time and can hurt an individual both physically and emotionally.

Childline has some excellent advice for victims and bullies, as well as dealing with trolls on social media, when and how to involve the police and advice around sexting, nudes and the law. Bullying and cyberbullying 

It is important if you are being bullied to let someone know either your teacher or a parent. Don’t suffer in silence.

Understanding bullying

Created by Anti-Bullying Alliance

BulliesOut have great tips on staying on the right side of the line on their blog Banter V Bullying – BulliesOut. Or you can go to bulliesout.com/need-support/young-people/